Written by Rob Montgomery – Baddies member 

About fifteen or so years ago, some ‘older adults’ had enrolled in Aqualink’s Fab Strength at the old Box Hill gym. Before being let loose in the gym it was necessary to prove the ability to safely use the equipment. This required participation in a series of classes with instructor Pauline in what was a former squash court with a few machines around the walls. 

We pushed, pulled and squatted for some weeks following up each class with coffee and bright conversation. In a moment of inspiration or madness, Pauline introduced us to the boot-scootin’ classic Nutbush. Lined up in rows some quickly picked up the steps while others were more akin to puppets with crossed strings.  We laughed with and at ourselves taking pleasure in each other’s company as we got to know each other better. 

After we ‘graduated’ we started getting together with spouses and partners away from the gym with the occasional dinner at the Box Hill RSL and Melbourne Cup lunches at various people’s homes.  On one of these occasions after having had a hit at Seniors Week, Keith (K1) enthused about badminton.  Before any of the blokes could find a way to say no, they were presented with $20 racquets and a time to be at Box Hill Aqualink for a first go at this frustrating game.  Initially, it was just six men and it seemed that everyone had had a run in with cancer, coronary disease, prostate or another nasty affliction.   

Aside from the games, what made it special to those men was being comfortable sharing their experiences. There was empathy and advice if asked for, but sometimes it was just being able to talk frankly to peers about hopes and concerns.  This sort of openness may be less common among men, but it has remained a hallmark of the group as the years and the numbers have grown.  

Spouses and partners had started coming along for coffee and some had a hit.  Sylvia was among the first of the women players and quickly showed most of the men there was room for significant improvement.  But no matter how well or poorly we play the good-hearted banter and laughter never stops.  We play doubles with different partners and winning or losing isn’t important; it’s just being there and sharing the magic each week.  As the numbers grew, we thought it would be nice to have a name and a tee shirt. Collectively the Baddies name and tagline evolved. 

We have been playing together for nine years now and as the years have passed, we have lost three treasured friends while gaining others.  We have 15 players when everyone turns up but juggling grandparent duties, medical appointments, travel and other obligations means there are not that many every week.  Although we must acknowledge birthdays, we expect to be able to get the shuttlecock back over the net at every shot even if there are moments of foot stamping and muttered oaths.   

We plan on being Baddies for a long time yet. 

 

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